Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Ten career-damaging behaviours to avoid

"O, how full of brierf is this working-day world!" is the famous Shakespearian quote from `As You Like It'. External pressures, thorns, obstacles and difficulties aside, how many of us are responsible for unwittingly hampering our chances of career success through our own misplaced and misguided attitudes and behaviours.
Below are ten common faux-pas that can ruin a career and should be avoided at all costs.

1. Poor Time Management

Missing deadlines,
failing to abide by agreed timelines,
arriving to meetings late and generally disrespecting approved schedules is a sure fire way to lose credibility and professional respect.

Try to value each and every minute on the job and recognize the inefficiencies that arise from procrastination and slovenly time management and the impact these have on the organisation as a whole.

2. Failure to Deliver on Promises

A promise made should be a promise kept if your professional credibility is to remain intact. Avoid making promises you cannot deliver on. Unless you are known as someone who can be strictly depended on to follow through and deliver on time you are likely to be passed over for promotions and key assignments. When you do need more time or resources for an assignment communicate the requirement formally and professionally and manage the situation to show you are in control and will not be sacrificing on quality of delivery.

3. Poor Accountability

Accountability, a close reactive of honesty is an essential character trait in today's workplace. Avoid becoming known as the sour apple, who usurps all credit and circumvents all blame. If you have made an error, admitting to it in a timely manner avoids an unnecessary escalation, earns you the confidence and respect of those around you, and indicates professionalism, honesty and maturity.

4. Poor interpersonal skills

All research indicates that emotional intelligence and people skills are essential ingredients for success in life and at work. Whether it is suppliers, clients, superiors, colleagues or subordinates you are dealing with the quality and success of that relationship will be largely predicated by how personable you are and how pleasant you are to interact with. If you have a reputation as someone who is difficult to work or interact with, chances are people will start to avoid you and your success at mobilizing people or resources to further your goals will be severely diminished.

5. Poor team skills

A good team-player is able to work cohesively within a team framework and contribute, collaborate, communicate and challenge to meet specific goals within that framework.

Inability to see beyond one's self, work well with everyone, find the good qualities of others in the team, communicate persuasively and effectively, listen actively and attentively, give and welcome input, offer encouragement and assistance where needed and show respect, patience and courtesy inevitably leads to marginalisation and failure to meet personal and professional goals.

6. Lack of ethics or professionalism

Conducting personal business on the job and any other activities that show flagrant disrespect for company time, resources and property are both unethical and unprofessional. Chatting endlessly on the job, office gossip, wasting office supplies, laying about important work-related matters, back-biting the boss, spreading office secrets, routinely bringing personal matters to the workplace all fall under this category.

7. Lack of initiative

Complacency is a sure fire road to professional mediocrity.

To succeed it is essential that you continue to show enthusiasm, stretch the limits, be proactive and test the boundaries in the interest of innovation. Take responsibility for your personal and professional growth and continue to build momentum in your training and profession development activities.

If you chose to simply lie low and casually bide your time while others race ahead in their careers you will most probably be overlooked for promotions and plum assignments and your skills may well eventually become redundant.

8. Inability to Handle Pressure

Every job entails a certain amount of stress and pressure and failure to recognize and handle the strain may lead to a pronounced and sustained decline in performance.
Learn to recognize stress and cope with it professionally and effectively.
Take breaks and holidays when needed, learn to manage stress and cope with pressure so that it is not an ongoing problem for you. It may be that the pressures mounting on you are due to poor time management or delegation skills or weakness in a certain area in which case developing your skills in these areas is highly advisable.

9. Lone Ranger Syndrome

Team skills are essential in today's marketplace as is getting along with others and communicating your accomplishments regularly and professionally.
Do not try to isolate yourself and excel quietly in private as chances are your performance will not get the exposure and credit it deserves.
Personal marketing and effective relationship management is key to career success.
Aim to regularly and professionally communicate your private coups to your manager and others in a position to help your career advancement and do not assume your great work and personal victories will automatically get noticed and given the credit they deserve.

10. Stasis

You may well be in your comfort zone and doing very well there but if you don't challenge yourself in pursuit of further growth and development and continuously move forward and upward you may lose your equilibrium sooner than you expected.

Have a vision in mind as pertains to your career and formulate a clear strategy and timeline for getting there which you can regularly benchmark and measure yourself against. Continuous learning, development and self-improvement is a necessity not a luxury for today's ambitious professional and it is imperative that you keep abreast of the latest trends, tools and technologies in your field and not risk losing ground to the star performers who take personal growth more seriously.

© ashish™ 2011

Sunday, February 6, 2011

How Failure Can Accelerate Your Success!!

No one actually wants to encounter failure in their life. That’s because when you look at the isolated incident, it means that you haven’t found success. However, with the right attitude, you can use your failure in order to get yourself to success in an accelerated fashion.


Overcoming Failure

The first step to overcoming failure is to accept your situation. Tell yourself that failure is a natural part of life, and that you’re not superhuman so you will fail to succeed at certain junctures in your life.

When you attempt to be too perfect that can just be yet another failure on your part. It’ll cause you stress and you won’t be able to get yourself past to the part of acceptance. You might tell yourself that you’re over it when you really aren’t. You don’t want to be carrying that burden around with you forever.


Your Positive Outlook

The next thing to concentrate on is to turn your negative thoughts into positive ones. If you fail to succeed, don’t be tempted to wallow in it. It’ll mean that you’ve truly failed because you’re choosing to end your road to success.

With the right outlook on life, you can look at your failure as just a stepping stone on your way to success. Your goal is to seek out the silver lining, because it’s always there hiding in any negative situation.

I remember a time when I wanted to be a part of a sports team, I tried and I didn’t make the team. I could have just moved on and blamed others for the failure, but I chose to study the reasons why I didn’t make it. I asked the ground, poles ans every other thing what I could work on and I practiced those skills. To make a long story short, the next year I was on the team and better yet, I was a striker. I don’t believe I would have accomplished so much so fast had I not encountered the initial “failure”.


How Failure Can Speed Up Success

The above story illustrates how one can use a failure in order to get to success faster. There’s a vast difference between overcoming failure and accepting failure. When you’re in the process of overcoming failure you’re given the unique opportunity to analyze what went wrong.

Take the time to study the exact steps that you took and what outcome you received. Also study the reasons why the failure occurred. Maybe there’s a certain skill you can develop in order to finally reach success?

After this analysis you can draft up a new plan in order to get to success. Only this time you’ll be smarter and better equipped.


Never Give Up On Yourself

It may help you to stop using words like “failure” when it comes to your attempts at success. As long as you’re still trying on that road to success, then you actually haven’t failed. It’s only once you’ve given up that you’ve failed.

Life is tough though. To say “never give up” is easier said than done. Of course there will be times when you feel like giving up, everyone encounters these times. Just ask any successful person that you admire. However, it’s those people that still make the extra effort even when they feel like giving up that reach success. There’s nothing stopping you from being one of these people.

Of course you want to get to success as fast as you possibly can, but you must give yourself proper time. Everyone has their unique road and when you stop comparing yourself to others and just plough forward with your plans, you’ll get there before you know it.

© ashish™ 2011

Sunday, January 2, 2011

ClassiC DefinitionS & CooL MeaningS ...

1. Cigarette: A pinch of tobacco rolled in paper with fire at one end & a fool at the other!!
2. Love affairs: Something like cricket where one-day internationals are more popular than a five-day test!!
3. Marriage: It's an agreement in which a man loses his bachelor degree and a woman gains her master!!
4. Divorce: Future tense of marriage!!
5. Lecture: An art of transferring information from the notes of the lecturer to the notes of the students without passing through "the minds of either"!!
6. Conference: The confusion of one man multiplied by the number present!!
7. Compromise: The art of dividing a cake in such a way that everybody believes he got the biggest piece!!
8. Tears: The hydraulic force by which masculine will-power is defeated by feminine water-power!!
9. Dictionary: A place where divorce comes before marriage!!
10. Conference Room: A place where everybody talks, nobody listens & everybody disagrees later on!!
11. Ecstasy: A feeling when you feel you are going to feel a feeling you have never felt before!!
12. Classic: books, which people praise, but do not read!!
13. Smile: A curve that can set a lot of things straight!!
14. Office: A place where you can relax after your strenuous home life!!
15. Yawn : The only time some married men ever get to open their mouth!!
16. Etc.: A sign to make others believe that you know more than you actually do!!
17. Committee: Individuals who can do nothing individually and sit to decide that nothing can be done together!!
18. Experience: The name men give to their mistakes!!
19. Atom Bomb: An invention to end all inventions!!
20. Philosopher: A fool who torments himself during life, to be spoken of when dead!!
21. Diplomat: A person who tells you to go to hell in such a way that you actually look forward to the trip!!
22. Opportunist: A person who starts taking bath if he accidentally falls into a river!!
23. Optimist: A person who while falling from Eiffel Tower says in midway "See I am not injured yet."!!
24. Pessimist: - A person who says that O is the last letter in ZERO, Instead of the first letter in word OPPORTUNITY!!
25. Miser: A person who lives poor so that he can die rich!!
26. Father: A banker provided by nature!!
27. Criminal: A guy no different from the rest... except that he got caught!!
28. Boss: Someone who is early when you are late and late when you are early!!
29. Politician: One who shakes your hand before elections and your Confidence after!!
30. Doctor: A person who kills your ills by pills, and kills you with his bills!!
31. Computer Engineer: One who gets paid for reading such Things!!

© ashish™ 2011